This is a gentle, sensible walk through issues that appear when infertility crushes your identity, written by two women whose infertility had different outcomes. They discuss questions of concern to Christian couples longing for a child, some of whom may have suffered miscarriages or stillbirth. The book is also meant for those who support such couples, giving positive suggestions and revealing ways in which friends and family can cause pain by thoughtless remarks or questions.

Sections explore the biblical perspective, what makes a family, marriage, men's advice and experiences, adoption, and medical treatment. Personal stories are included and helpful reflections end each section. A poignant chapter talks about letting go of the dreams you had for your future. Maybe the dreams have taken you over.

We are made in the image of a Father God and thus with the 'stamp' of a parent. Therefore we naturally love and nurture others and find childlessness hard. The authors note that in the New Testament Paul shows this father love for fellow Christians, and today we can use this grasp of parenting in a much wider sense than with our own children. This is a book of encouragement, comfort and strength to face whatever the future may hold.